I'm in the Argue Better camp. I might not agree with all of Utah's Governor Spencer Cox, especially on his recent remarks on Kirk. But I do respect him for his efforts to tone down rhetoric with his efforts as head of the National Governor's Association to attempt to reach compromises across political and idealogical lines with his disagree better Gov Wes Moore from Maryland is another one promoting actions by our leaders.
What little I've seen of Kirk's "Prove Me Wrong" rallies tend to do just the opposite. It puts the opposing side on a defensive footing.
This country became great because of leaders willing to make compromises. History has proven that when two ideology's refuse to come to some sort of an agreement, then countries fail.