And they subtly shield those fears by pointing out she was a lesbian. Therefore an “other”. Don’t worry sweetie. They won’t do this to you. You are “normal”. Then they just incrementally advance it along until the only safe women will be white,Christian (of certain Protestant sects), non working, and child bearing age. (13-37 preferably). Of course this excludes the Ms Vance’s of the world. I’m hopefully exaggerating but maybe not.