I acknowledge that the key to winning any argument is to first train yourself to believe your position, even if you didn’t going in, but man, so can’t have convinced herself of this one, can she? Can she really be that empty a vessel?
She’s young enough to survive to experience the truth-and-reconciliation phase, and I wouldn’t be surprised to see her defense would be she was cast under some spell so didn’t know what she was doing or saying. There’s a whole swath of people to conditioned to believe that’s an actual thing.