The first time I watched Napoleon Dynamite I did not get it and I was annoyed because everyone else appeared to get it.
Given that I have intimate experience of Southeast Idaho where it was filmed - since my wife grew up there and I’ve spent lots of time there - it shouldn’t have been that much of a stretch for me.
I think the innate awkwardness of so many of the characters reminded me more of myself than I was prepared to admit. The faux confidence, and earnestness of so many of them hit too close to home for me.
Learning to laugh at myself is a good thing and this film helped me do that.
Every time I have re-watched it, I have to pause it because I’m hemorrhaging with laughter and I just can’t take it.